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Richard K
06-04-2006, 03:35 PM
The weeks in early June encompass most High School graduations. Often we hear of tragic consequences of some event gone awry. We are informed by news of the day usualy involving a stranger and a location far away.

My daughter Annie's last day of school was Friday June 2. The day would be topped off by a number of Senior Class parties.

Our phone rang at 9:20 PM. A friend of Annie's called to tell us that Annie had a serious accident. My wife Kerri and I raced to the scence, about 10 blocks from our home in the city park. I arrive seconds behind the rescue squad. The scene I am presented with is frightening. Twilight is fading, the night has begun. I see the Chev Suburban Annie was driving ahead of me about 100 feet. It is upside down and partially off the street up a slight embankment, the headlites are shining up into the trees. Police cars seem to be everywhere, the flashing emergency lights creating a chaotic and erie lightshow. Many people, unrecognizable because of the settling darkness, are quickly assembling across the street, the Paramedics are scrambling out of their truck, the turn signal on Annie's car is blinking, a devilish sort of countdown. My eyes spin back to the crash, where is Annie? There she is, lying on her back, in the dirt and grass behind the curb. Motionless!!
I race toward her! As I get near to my beloved Annie, her eyes move to me. Thank God! A trip to the trauma center follows and after many hours and CAT scans and Xrays and tests Annie has only a broken collar bone, scrapes and bruises. God was certainly watching over our family.

Anni's car was the only vehicle involved, She made a poor choice to pass another student's car at a high rate of speed. She lost control. .................5-6 seconds............. "I thought I was going to Die!".

After we arrived at home, near daybreak, the time was right to pray, thank God and reflect on our good fortune. To bring meaning to all that had happend I wrote the following:

A Graduation Prayer

For Annie and Annie's Friends

Dear Lord, with thankful hearts we praise you.

You have given us the blessing of beautiful children. Children we love and cherish. We watch our children lying in their cribs and at play in our neighborhoods. We are awed by your creation. We are proud parents when they climb on the kindergarten bus and wave goodbye. We are overjoyed to see their smiles at days end. We love and care for them and dream of them as adults and ourselves as Grandparents. We trust in your unwavering love to guide and sustain us, parents and children alike. Our children spread their wings and venture out from the safety of our homes and yards. We parents pray that your watchful eye is always upon our children. Hope, love, and trust are our only assurances that our offspring are safe.

This time of the young adults life, the graduation season, offers many choices and chances for new experiences and the urge to dash out into the world, finally on their own! Parents cringe, worry and advise. We offer our children a frantic last parental epistle to ensure ourselves we have completed the task God has given us eighteen years to accomplish.

Thank you Lord for your abundant Grace! Bless the Graduates, our friends and families. Guide them and keep them safe from harm. Let us be yours forever in Jesus name’, Amen.

rookie
06-04-2006, 03:45 PM
Definately a time to be grateful for his grace. She was very lucky.

Best wishes, Phil

Kerry Pinkerton
06-04-2006, 04:05 PM
Richard words fail me. Every parents worst nightmare is the phone call while your kids are 'out'. Thank God the injuries were relative minor. Things can be fixed or replaced.

gator 1
06-04-2006, 04:17 PM
That moment when they are sent off to the trauma center is the worst. Its never close and you expect the worst. The back board, neck collars, iv lines and the total destruction.

80% of the people we fly to the trauma centers are discharged within 6 hours. Its hard to explain to the parents that its just a precaution and we have to fly because it in our medical protocols. The look in the parents eyes says it all. Ive been doing that for 27 years and retired this January. I know i sleep a lot better now but that time is coming to an end all to soon.

I have two boys, 1 just turned 8 and 1 will be 10 in July. If i make it till there 20 it will truly be a miracle.

Im glad she was in the 80% group. Gator

rockflyer
06-04-2006, 04:22 PM
Hello Richard, Glad to read she got through it so well. Wishing her a fast + full recovery .
Dick

Tony Sanchez
06-04-2006, 04:43 PM
---Richard, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, especially Annie.
---Tony.

Irrational Metalworks
06-04-2006, 04:56 PM
Richard, thank the good Lord your daughter is ok. My heart goes out to you, as I also have a 13 yr. old daughter. I hope I NEVER have to go through that.
My parents went through the same thing when I endoed my truck 9 times at the age of 21. I took that as a sign that God was trying to tell me something by sparing me my life. I am sure your daughter will feel the same and be a lot more cautious from now on.
Looking forward to your visit to Texas, and my new machine. You better show up with an appetite. Us Texans know our way around a BBQ!!!


Tim @ www.irrationalmetalworks.com

kustomizingkid
06-04-2006, 05:32 PM
Thank God she is okay. I'm right at that age having just started driving. me and cars we're a bad combination. Latley I've been thinking twice about things when I get in a car, I've been lucky so far but It won't last. Stories like that really make me think slowwwww dowwwwwn.

Brandon McCarthy

jvo
06-04-2006, 07:52 PM
Richard, we can all thank God when our kids are spared in instances like this. I personally can relate to what you have gone through. I got a similar call from a friend for whom my son was working a couple years ago. He's now 24 and at the time was always in a hurry, running on the verge of being late all the time. We had spent most of the winter rebuilding an '86 Volvo sedan. He was driving to work, in early April, heading into the sun, and turned left in front of a semi. The truck hit him in the passenger door. I got the call at work, very slow and to the point, that he had been in an accident, was possibly hurt badly, and was on the way to the hospital. I called my wife and daughter and we all met at the hospital, waiting 15 long minutes for the ambulance to arrive, as the accident scene was about 25 miles out of town. I can still feel that gut wrenching feeling watching the ambulance coming up the street, not overly fast, no siren, just lights flashing, and I was instantly thinking the worst. Turns out, they stabilized him in the ambulance so there wasn't that much need for haste anymore. He was very lucky to be alive, had lost a lot of blood, received a lot of stitches to his forehead and chest.

Things like this really make you stop and think about what's important in life. My wife and family wish you and your family the best.
John V.O.

jlrussell4
06-04-2006, 08:15 PM
Richard,

Our prayers go out you, your wife, and most of all your daughter. I pray that all will be O.K.

Doug Hawkins
06-04-2006, 08:42 PM
Richard,

It is a blessing Annie will be OK.

Thank you for sharing the graduation prayer. It is very moving.

Doug

KustomsRus
06-04-2006, 09:04 PM
Richard, May I share your prayer with our Bible Study 2:42 Group? We will keep Annie in our prayers, also you and your Misses.

Boogiemanz1
06-04-2006, 09:49 PM
Richard I'm sure God was watching over her, I pray for the best for your family. I hope your message helps another family avoid that phone call............john

Richard K
06-05-2006, 05:02 AM
Jerry,

You certainly may use the prayer.

Metalmeet members,

Thanks for your kind words.

FriarTuck
06-05-2006, 07:43 AM
Hi Richard, I'm thankfull that all is well, and although my daughter is a Junior in college, I still fear "the call" from time to time, but it gets better and easier as time goes on. God Bless

Tuck

KMAC
06-05-2006, 05:16 PM
KMAC
Richard I am so glad for your good fortune and the Lords blessing on you. This morning my wife and I had the unpleasant task of visiting with our good friends at the loss of their wonderful 26 year old son late friday nite. They are just devastated and at a time like this we were just there to give moral support. They dont know the Lord and that makes it so hard. The boy was driving home in a bad rain storm and on a sharp curve slid into a ditch and killed him instantly.He was such a wonderful boy and such a loss.We dont know the number of our days and that is a good thing. The Lord has blessed us with wonderful kids and grand kids and I feel so lucky and blessed. Every day I am trying to live for him. It is such an honor to be involved with such a great bunch of caring people on metal meet. Thank you all for the caring remarks for Richard.
Kenny

1969robinhood
06-05-2006, 05:39 PM
Annie's prayer is a great testament to the heartfelt thanks that I know you and your family have for God seeing that she remains here with you...my boys are only 3yrs old and 4 mnths old....but I still thank the great spirit for watching over them and keeping them safe....for one more day....and one more and one more..etc..etc..

Things that have happened to me in the past keep me wandering why I am even here......I think the reason's are Jesse and Nicholas....I hope that i live up to His expectations of me!!

I am very glad to hear that things are no worse for your daughter than they are....I think all teenagers should have to drive a suburban with a six point harness;-) .

God bless

The Garrett Family

Pedalcar
06-06-2006, 02:20 PM
Hi Richard ,

hope you all find the strength to get trough this.

Ben

edwardd_
06-07-2006, 07:09 PM
Greetings Annie, Richard and family,

I pray for a complete recovery. I also pray His gift of life to you will permit you to Honor Him in the future.

God Bless.

frank luten
06-19-2006, 01:24 PM
Hi Richard,

How is Annie doing?

Frank

snotzalot
06-19-2006, 04:00 PM
Richard,

Our prayers are with your daughter and your family.